For the past two weeks, the Olympics have been on in our house all day, every day.

The big moments.

The pressure.

The celebrations.

The stories.

It’s such a special time. But watching with my kids reminded me of something simple and easy to forget:

Every Olympian started somewhere small.

A fi...

When most people think about confidence in sports, they picture something obvious.

The athlete celebrating loudly after a big play.
The one who seems fearless.
The one who looks completely sure of themselves at all times.

As the Olympics unfold, we’re watching athletes perform under immense pressure...

It’s one of the most concerning moments for parents and coaches alike.

An athlete goes quiet.
They stop engaging.
They won’t talk.
They shut down.

And the instinct is immediate: What did I do wrong? Or, how do I fix this?

But here’s an important reframe that can change everything:

When athletes shu...

In youth sports, it’s easy to believe that everything that matters happens during practice or competition.
Ice, field, court time.
Drills.
Games.
Results.

But some of the most important work in athlete development happens outside of the game/practice—in the quiet, ordinary moments that don’t show up on...

One of the biggest misconceptions in youth sports is that parents are supposed to know exactly what to do.

What to say after a tough game.
How to respond to frustration.
When to step in.
When to step back.
How to support without adding pressure.

The truth is much simpler—and much more freeing:

Parent...

There’s a belief in sports (and in life) that once a goal is set, that’s it – it shouldn’t change. 

That if you adjust your plan, pivot your focus, or redefine what success looks like, you’ve somehow failed.

But that belief couldn’t be further from the truth.

Adjusting your goals doesn’t mean you...

January has a reputation.

It’s loud.
It’s fast.
It’s full of expectations to reset, refocus, and push forward immediately.

But here’s the truth I share with athletes and families every year:

Strong foundations aren’t built in January hype.
They’re built quietly, over time.

Before we talk about goal...

January has a certain energy to it.

Practices are back.
School routines are back.
Schedules fill up again—fast.

And with the turn of the calendar often comes an unspoken pressure to do more, be better, and figure everything out immediately.

But before we rush ahead, I want to invite you—and your at...

Every December, I’m reminded of something powerful:

For all the focus we place on performance, rankings, and outcomes…
it’s the people who shape an athlete’s journey the most.

The teammate who offers encouragement after a tough shift.
The coach who believes in a kid before they believe in themselves...

December is a special month for me — it marks three years since I published The Empowered Athlete.
And as I reflect on the hundreds of athletes and families I’ve worked with since then, one truth becomes clearer every year:

The earlier athletes learn mindset skills, the stronger—and more consistent—...

Every year, I work with athletes who step into college as the best of the best — only to find themselves facing something they’ve never experienced before:

Not dressing.
Not playing.
Not knowing where they fit.
Not knowing who they are without being “the star.”

And this year, I’m seeing this pattern ...

When an athlete struggles—misses a shot, gets benched, or loses a big game—the instinct for many parents and coaches is to jump in with feedback. Correction. Motivation. A silver lining.

But often, that’s not what young athletes need in those moments.

It’s Not Always About “Trying Harder”

Athlete...